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| Woman looking over the Tien Shen Mountains |
Our
guest this week is Kelly Raftery, who grew up in the Midwest with an abiding
passion for the Russian language and culture. A summer studying in Leningrad
ignited a life-long passion for the world behind the Iron Curtain. After
graduate school, she spent five years in the wild world of Soviet collapse
bringing capitalism to the masses as a small business consultant in locales as
far-flung as Russia’s “Venice of the North” and the Silk Road’s “Gem of the
East.” Kelly has taught Russian language and Soviet Pop Culture to eager
undergrads and worked as a freelance interpreter/translator. She currently
lives with her family in Colorado’s Front Range.
Close
your eyes and picture yourself at the top of the world. Mountains surround the
nation’s capital, soaring towards the sky like the buttresses of a medieval
cathedral. The Apostle Matthew is rumored to be buried in a monastery on the
shore of a high-altitude, sapphire blue lake. Going to the south, you find a
city three thousand years old, protected by a sacred mountain named for King
Solomon. Do you know where you are yet? Any guesses?
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| Yurt nestled in the mountains |
I will
tell you. You are in the Kyrgyz Republic, a small country nestled between China
and Russia along the fabled Silk Road. I first visited and fell in love with
the Kyrgyz Republic (and not coincidentally, my Kyrgyz husband) well over a
decade ago, when the country was undergoing the initial growing pains of its
separation from the Soviet Union. Until the collapse, the Kyrgyz Soviet
Socialist Republic, as it was then known, was officially closed to foreigners,
mostly due to its role as a center for military research and development. My
middle-aged husband remembers the day the first American arrived in his home
country, remembers the first American he ever saw in person, it was that
significant an event for his people.
Now he
is an American himself and his country has continued to endure sweeping changes—two
revolutions, the installation of American and Russian military bases and a
profound outmigration that calls to mind the Irish fleeing the Potato Famine. At
the end of the Soviet period, the Kyrgyz Republic boasted a population of just
over five million people. Today, over one million Kyrgyz live abroad. I am of
two minds about this; part of me is deeply saddened, knowing that the reason
for this vast departure is both economic and political. The Kyrgyz Republic is
a poor country and very few people see any opportunity for advancement at home.
The other part of me is wryly amused, because until the Soviets forced them into
collective farms and factories, the vast majority of Kyrgyz were nomadic, this
most recent immigration just seems to bring their heritage into the 21st
century.
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| Lake Issyk-Kul, where it is rumored that the Apostle Matthew is buried in an Armenian Monastery on the northern shore. |
The
Kyrgyz capital of Bishkek has been home to several major settlements dating
back to the 6th century, but the city as it exists today was
established by Russian Army engineers in the late 1880s. I smiled when I read
that in the first official census in 1882, the city had a population of 2,135
people. Six were Kyrgyz. The history of the Kyrgyz is not written in cities or
monuments, their culture developed on horseback, in yurts, in clans and tribes.
Summers were spent in the mountains with their flocks, winters in the valleys. Their
cultural knowledge was not found in books, but in song. Longest epic poem known
to man? It’s Kyrgyz. A half a million poetic lines learned by heart and sung at
special occasions. My wedding celebration featured part of the poem sung by my
brother-in-law and his young son. Afterwards, he came up to me, deeply
concerned that I had been frightened by the intensity and content of his
retelling of Manas. I didn’t have the heart to tell him that all I heard was a
very rhythmic, “Blah, blah, blah! Blah, blah, blah!” You can see a version of
Manas being sung here.
I did
not know when I married my husband fifteen years ago that I also married into the
entire family of Kyrgyz people, for in their tradition when a man takes a
bride, she becomes a member of his tribe. While my utterly modern computer programmer
husband brushes off being a member of the White Deer tribe, I still remember an
occasion when I had been asked to be an interpreter for a high-level Kyrgyz
government official at a lecture. I had never met this man, an adviser to their
President, and when we were introduced, I was presented not with my
professional credentials, but as a Kyrgyz wife.
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| Yurt with family at a traditional gathering. Photo: Tracing Tea/Shutterstock.com |
Towards the end of the
afternoon, I was mortified when an eminent scholar in the audience stood up and
challenged how I had interpreted part of the talk into English. The President’s
man replied that I had, in fact, correctly interpreted what he had meant to
say. Afterwards, as we said good-byes, he pulled me close, laid a gentle kiss
just beneath my hairline and said, “Thank you, daughter.” It was that day that
I realized what it meant to be part of my husband’s tribe, my husband’s people.
Many
years have gone by since that gentle encouragement from that man, but I have
never forgotten it. Today, I live a dual life, one of my own making – that of
an independent and outspoken American woman and one that I was adopted into,
that of a Kyrgyz wife. So, while you may see a typical suburban housewife
dressed in sweats, ponytail swinging, I know that I am the adopted daughter of
a very special people who live on the Roof the World.
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| Wild horses in front of the Tien Shien Mountains |
